Denying Fathers Rights To Visitation

advice on divorceFathers Rights Question:

My wife and I are currently separated, but the divorce has not been finalized, and she is denying my visitation rights to my children.

We have no child custody agreement and no child support agreement, however I have been paying her money for the past year. This past month I didn’t have money to pay her so she has denied me from seeing my kids until I pay her.

Since there is no court order in place regarding child support or my visitation rights as a father, what are my options to see my children?

Answer:

This answer only includes general divorce help for men since I am only licensed to practice in Oklahoma and am thus unable to provide legal advice on divorce.

Where I practice, the two of you are likely operating in the gray area in between separation and divorce when there is no order in place regarding child custody, visitation, and child support. You haven’t been ordered to pay child support, so legally you’re not obligated to pay it right now.

With that said, if the issue was brought to the court, you would likely be ordered to pay it, plus arrearages, so it’s a good idea to keep paying so you don’t fall too far behind.

When your child support obligation is calculated and ordered, anything you’ve paid in the past will be offset against any arrearages you may owe. This means you get a credit for what you’ve already paid against anything the court deems you owe from the past.

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Now, with regard to your wife’s attempts to deny you visitation with your children, you’re sort of in the same boat. There is no order in place saying who gets them when, and for how long, so she’s not legally in violation of any court order.

Now, you may be able to rely on your past arrangements with her to show the court a precedent has been set for visitation. She’s also making a potentially serious mistake by keeping your kids from you. Judges do not like that at all, especially when the reason you’re being denied time with your children is money.

It would be a good idea to get an order in place regarding child support and visitation soon so you know exactly where you stand on these issues and so that your rights and obligations are clearly defined. Once you get an order in place, you can take action any time she denies you visitation with your kids.

In the meantime, I’d strongly recommend you seek the advice of a skilled mens divorce lawyer who can help you get these orders in place, and who will be familiar enough with your state’s divorce laws to help you find any immediate steps you can take to address the problem right away.

To set up an appointment with a Cordell and Cordell mens divorce attorney, including Oklahoma City Divorce Lawyer Christian D. Barnard, please contact Cordell & Cordell.

 


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